You’ve got your bridal party chosen, outfits picked out, and the countdown to “I do” is on. But do your people know what’s actually expected of them on the big day?
Here’s a quick, helpful guide to help your crew support you like pros and look great while doing it.
10 Maid of Honour Duties
1. Keep the bride calm and on schedule.
2. Carry the bride’s essentials (lipstick, tissues, safety pins, etc.).
3. Hold the bouquet during the ceremony.
4. Fluff and straighten the bride’s dress and veil.
5. Coordinate with vendors and planner when needed.
6. Help with bustling the dress before the reception.
7. Assist during bathroom breaks (yes, it’s a thing).
8. Give a heartfelt toast at the reception.
9. Encourage hydration and snack breaks.
10. Dance like nobody’s watching (and get the party started).
8 Best Man Duties
1. Keep the groom relaxed and on time.
2. Safeguard the rings until ceremony time.
3. Make sure the groom eats and stays hydrated.
4. Coordinate groomsmen and help them get dressed.
5. Lead the way during the ceremony processional.
6. Sign the marriage license as a witness (If chosen by the couple).
7. Give a killer toast (funny but not too embarrassing).
8. Rally the crowd to hit the dance floor.
7 Bridesmaid Duties
1. Help the bride get dressed.
2. Keep the energy light and fun.
3. Assist with touch-ups and last-minute needs.
4. Cheer the bride on during emotional moments.
5. Know the wedding day timeline.
6. Help wrangle family for group photos.
7. Offer support, emotionally and logistically.
6 Groomsman Duties
1. Be ready on time (and dressed properly).
2. Keep the groom laughing and calm.
3. Assist with setup or small tasks if needed.
4. Walk with bridesmaids during processional.
5. Help direct guests or answer basic questions.
6. Bring the hype for the reception and dance floor.
3 Parents & Family Duties
1. Be present and ready for photos (and on time!).
2. Help greet guests and guide them to their seats.
3. Offer calm support and emotional encouragement to the couple.
Final Thoughts:
A well-prepared bridal party means a smoother wedding day and fewer last-minute scrambles. Share this with your crew so everyone knows their role and you can focus on soaking up every magical moment.
Need more tips for an stress-free day? Browse the blog or connect with me, I've seen it all and photographed most of it!